For my sisters

As eye ponder on thoughts of want, eye review over and over again that which has defined me, Love is a gift given freely, never restrained, unconditional, sometimes unrequited but never absent. This journey that is my life which is now complete, has lead me to a few realism. Questions that need to be answered. This being said. eye feel the need to share them with my sisters, be you young, middle aged, or adorably regal in maturity.

As women, each of us want to belong to someone, yet in that search for belonging do we somehow lose sense of self? eye have struggled with this conundrum for many years. Do we create from fantasy our ideal counterpart from nothing? Make Mrs. Wrong, Mrs. Right! Deferring all of her shortcomings to "Oh she'll get better with time" knowing deep within the recesses of our heart this will never happen.

Have we forgotten that the Creator has given us free will in all things, including our search for that if not be it perfect mate? Have we forgotten that the Creator loved us first, and in doing so he truly freed us from the occasional need for the more physical presence in our lives? In truth my sisters, do we compromise or lower our standards which were originally initiated by the Creator to protect us, and keep us safe? Do we suffer periods of disrespect, verbal, physical and mental abuse just to say we have a woman? Are we not worth more? Do we not deserve more? Especially when we know that we are all queens, no matter what shade, culture, religious background or economic status. Do we not deserve this kind of love?The Creator says we are worthy, shouldn't we believe that we are? No one person can complete us, this has been done sucessfully by Divine. Who can match it? What mortal man can challenge him?

So to my sisters, take these thoughts to heart; Love The Creator first, Love self than when the season is right for it Love the one who up builds, supports you spiritually, and humbles herself before you.
simply from the mind of a fym